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Pregnancy

Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

My fiances brothers partner is 8 months pregnant...

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LordOfThe5Rings · 01/08/2012 22:12

But she said she has only known for a week. I was just wondering if this is physically possible?

She's a 19 year old girl, pretty slim with no weird menstration problems.

I was just wondering how common this is, if it is in fact something that can happen, or did she keep it from fiances brother (perhaps afraid or something)?

It's a girl by the way and they are going to name her Lily Rose, I believe [is TTC and so jealous].

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StaceymReadyForNumber3 · 01/08/2012 22:17

Definately possible. If she was on the pill she would still have bleeding each break and with an anterior placenta it's possible to feel very little/no movement.

There's a lovely lady on here who didn't know she was pregnant until in labour StrandedBear I think.

LordOfThe5Rings · 01/08/2012 22:19

Wow! I wasn't calling her a liar or anything I just wasn't sure if it was possible!

That must be mega scary. I don't think she was on the pill but as she's very thin her periods although regular are pretty light, so possibly one reason?

I have utmost sympathy for stranded!

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StaceymReadyForNumber3 · 01/08/2012 22:24

Yeah I find a baby pretty scary and I've always had 8 months to get used to it. I can't imagine having little/no time to prepare!

oikopolis · 01/08/2012 22:24

Yes it does happen. It's more common than people think too. www.psychologytoday.com/blog/love-sex-and-babies/201107/how-could-you-be-pregnant-months-and-not-know-it

I know a woman who at age 44 and after three children, had no idea she was pregnant until 7 months gone.

Kirsty240287 · 02/08/2012 15:17

I always wonder when people say they didn't know, what they thought the baby kicking and ramming their elbows and pointy bits in your ribs was!? lol

oikopolis · 02/08/2012 16:11

anterior placenta (when you placenta is at the front of you abdomen, rather than at the back, against your spine) acts as a cushion. if you have an anterior placenta, it's quite possible not to feel any movement.

i'm now 33 weeks and have never had a single kick to the ribs, btw. and i have a posterior (at the back) placenta. i've only ever had the elbows/knees/feet outwards at belly button level. so if my placenta was anterior, i would probably feel nothing at all.

also not all babies are wriggly and kicky. some are much quieter than average.

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