I had my 12 week scan and consultant obstetrician appointment yesterday for my second baby. Scan was great, baby looks good, but something's been playing on my mind and I can't stop thinking about it.
I had a bit of an odd time last pregnancy with DS (now 21 months old)- went for routine scan at 33+5, all was fine but I mentioned I'd been having some crampy/stretchy pain for a few days, doc checked me and I was 4cm dilated and the tiny pains were actually contractions. Labour slowed that night (Wed), but was still contracting every 15 minutes or so so had to stay in hospital to be monitored. Then on the Fri evening my blood pressure rocketed and I got stinking headaches, on the Sat they said I had severe pre-eclampsia as my blood tests were all skewiff and they were going to induce me on the Sun. Didn't need inducing as DS came Sun morning anyway.
Anyway, obstetrician yesterday said she thought my chances of going full-term with this new pregnancy were minimal. Firstly as I went into labour spontaneously at 33 weeks, so higher chances of another preterm labour. And secondly because I had severe pre-eclampsia last time, she said I have a greater than 50% chance of getting it again, and as I have some permanent kidney damage from last time they would whip baby out as soon as pre-eclampsia was confirmed.
Does this seem right? Greater than 50% chance or PE again is much higher than I thought from reading around. Has anyone got any advice, or opinions, or anything to try and stop me worrying about this so much?
(And thankyou if you've read this far, this turned out rather epic I'm afraid as I thought it'd be easier if I told the whole back story!)