Wasting time being stressed?

[Jen1203]

I have a boss who is making my life pretty difficult, she hasn't spoken to me now civilly for a couple of weeks, I appreciate that I'm sensitive at 25 weeks pregnant and am confident that my ability at work is not in question, I know that she's just a difficult personality, my concern is it is effecting my unborn baby and to what extent, pregnancy should be a great time, I might not get to do it again and hate that all I can think about is what I'm doing so wrong to not even get a hello in the morning, feel like i'm wasting precious time worrying about this but she's making me miserable, any advice would be appreciated!

If she is making you miserable, go to your GP, explain the situation and see if you can get signed off for a couple of weeks. It will give you a break from her and her shitty attitude

Any pregnancy related absences cannot be held against you, so don't let her try to make you feel bad about taking time off

worrying about worrying, don't , you are not going to hurt the baby, it will be fine, and a perfectly normal cycle to get in, worrying about stress, just let go of the concept

just imagine your boss on the loo, every time she is an idiot.

Just ignore her! If she is generally quite difficult anyway, its likely not going to change with anything you do. Could she be like this due to your pregnancy? If it is too much I would speak to your doctor/midwife.

Sounds like it isnt anything personal and your boss is just a bit of a cow!!
Her problem though not yours - so (I know its difficult!) but try not let her get to you.
Like you say, you've got much more important things to be thinking about, and much nicer things too like your new baby!! Dont let her spoil that.
As said above, if its getting too much for you then maybe take some time off - you're 'allowed' as you're pregnant and she cant hold that against you.

Just replace any negative thoughts (whether about her or otherwise) with nice, lovely thoughts of baby clothes and cuddles!!

I often think if people are funny with you for no good reason it's often down to jealousy. She is not worth the stress. Treat her like she treats you. keep her at a distance, and rest assured better things are coming your way :)