I met me friend for a drink last week. We have known each other since primary school and I thought we are quite good friends. She has always struggled a bit with her weight (by her own admission) and is currently following Weightwatchers very closely to prepare for her wedding.
She looks fab and I always complement her on any weight loss/ new hair style/ clothes - I wouldn't dream of commenting on a weight gain and I always try and make her feel good about herself. I have always been naturally a bit smaller, although like most women have had some fluctuations in weight.
I'm 34+ weeks pregnant now with DS2 (a big baby) and am struggling as I am not allowed to exercise (high risk pg) and have quite bad water retention (even in my vagina 
). Despite this, I don't think I have gained too much weight that is not baby or water but naturally I'm still not feeling at my best at the moment, looks wise. I only made it to 28 weeks in my last pg with DS1 so I'm feeling pretty big and looking forward to getting my body back in a few weeks.
Her first comment to me as I walked in the bar was "oh my god, you are MASSIVE". I laughed it off but secretly felt hurt that she needed to be so forthright, especially since there were people sat around who could overhear. In the course of our conversation she kept coming back to my 'size' and I explained that I am unable to exercise and also have some pretty bad swelling. I discreetly showed her that I am having to wear a support sock on my left leg as it's so swollen and she actually looked gleeful which took me aback. As she got up to go to get a drink she then said "shift your water balloons" quite loudly in reference to my legs. It was pretty embarrassing.
The next day I put a status on Facebook along the lines of "I now realise I didn't miss out on anything when I had DS1 12 weeks early" and she commented: "but you look so fetching in your support tights with your water balloon legs."
I don't know if I'm just being sensitive but I felt mortified. I can't help but feel upset that someone I consider to be a good friend would be so openly thrilled that I am big and uncomfortable. I am not a petty person but I am tempted to store some of these comments for when it's her 'turn' to be huge and pregnant.