still not sure about it all...

[Lora1982]

I sometime feel like Im not pregnant then i start feeling crap and tired and sickly. But then i feel worried about wether somethings wrong Ive heard sad stories about the pregnancy being supported but no baby. I think Im just being stupid... the first few weeks I was scared for no bonafide reason about ectopic.... Im over that one now my theory bein that 9wks tomorrow itl be about 2cm and if that hasnt exploded my falopions I dont know what would. Is this the start of worrying about the baby for the rest of my life??!

Hi Lora. I'm a few weeks behind you- 6 weeks tomorrow but found out very early on so have been paranoid for over 2 weeks.
Sometimes I feel a bit sicky, or bloated, or tired but then I could feel like that sometimes anyway!
I don't have much advice but feel like you- I worry that lack of symptoms could mean a missed miscarriage. I'm trying not to dwell on it and keeping busy.
Hope you have a happy, healthy pregnancy
Dexi x

Hello, I am feeling really nervous too, I wasn't planning to get pregnant but now I am and we've decided to keep the baby, I'm terrified of something going wrong! No wonder I feel stressed, I guess it's a lot to get used to in a very short space of time.

Just went for a wee and there were a few smears of brown discharge in my knickers. I rang my mum for advice and she helpfully said 'It could be an early miscarriage' and I was like, yes mum, but could it possibly be something less serious?! I feel soooooo reassured thanks mum :(

It is normal to feel worried (and yes it probably is the start of a lifetime of worry). Thats the joys of motherhood. If you are worried the first thing id do is contact the doctor/midwife and relay your problems to them. They are there to help and advise. I am sure there is nothing wrong with any of you and remember that every preganancy is different.
My sis is 28 weeks and she has worried for the last 20odd weeks.
Good luck ladies. Hope your pregnancies go alright.