3 BFP very scared, need some reassurance....

[PipIsOutNow]

Hi Guys...

Here's a bit of background. I have 1 DSD who lives with me and a DS who will be 2 in July. The beginning of this year DP and I decided to start trying for another but last month decided that we didnt really want another one and we booked our wedding for May 2013.

We have just come back from a 2 week holiday, I didnt feel very well and thought (in a tongue in cheek kind of way) that it would be sod's law that I'm pregnant so did a test. 3 BFP later and I'm still in total shock. The deposit is paid for the wedding, DP hasnt taken the news very well and is a bit upset. We weren't using any precautions as I was waiting to start this month's cycle to start taking the pill again, we only did the deed once as well!!! I'm not sure how I feel. I'm a great believer in fate and that this is meant to be but I'm also very scared and confused as it's obviously a massive shock too. And I'm already feeling sick (but that might be shock!).

What I'm after is some advice, reassurance anything really as I'm feeling very alone at the moment.

Thanks in advance xxx

You may find the venue very understanding and happy to move to a later date, say August? Ypur dp will come round soon, he's just shocked and readjusting. Are ypu close to your mum/ siblings - can they be supportive while he and you come to terms?

Can you not be pregnant and get married ? Lots of women do ! With due respect you sound like an intelligent woman so if you were really against having another baby why on earth did you not use another form of conception that month ? Maybe apart of you wanted to give it one last go ? As the old adage says....it only takes the once !
It might be a shock...but you will get over it and once the LO is here you wouldn't be able to imagine life without them . Good Luck !

Sorry pregnancy brain !!!! By then you would have had the baby !!!!!So you just have an extra pageboy/bridesmaid ?

I've just emailed the venue to ask to move the wedding to a later date so will see what they say. I'm not close to my mum at all no, but I'm really close to my nan so will go and have a chat with her later. Sproglet I think you're right, I'm not stupid, I knew (or guessed) it might happen but as it hadnt happened for the few months we were trying I suppose I just didnt honestly think about it until I got home. I think it's just the shock I need to get over really and just looking for anyone who's been in a similar situation to tell me it will be ok. I said to DP this morning that it's a little miracle so we should be happy about it. Just hard when you get your head round not having another and focusing on a wedding to having your life turned upside down again. LO would be due end of January I think so would be 3 months old if we kept the wedding in May. I know it's not the end of the world but I'm just petrified. Thank you for taking the time to repsond xxx

Congratulations anyway! It's a big shock but a sweet one. Bet your nan will be brill.

Aw, congratulations, I bet once the shock wears off you'll find yourself almost excited!

And three month old babies are extremely portable, shouldn't stop you getting married by any means.