Can't stop crying arguments with DP and feeling rubbish

[mattysmum09]

Crikey hormones eh? Is anyone else crying at the drop of a hat? I can normally atleast have an argument without crying but not any more.....MS making me feel rubbish DP not being supportive (although not as bad as some I must say) and generally feel like curling up in a ball and hibernating until first trimester is over :(

Honestly I think the 1st trimester is by far the worst. You turn into a lunatic and can't stop it. It's hormones. My DP is getting it full blown too. It's a bit of a surprise to him as last pregnancy we hadn't quite moved in yet so he missed this bit .

I am normally a little bit like Larry David in Curb Your Enthusiasm/ Elaine in Seinfeld anyway....there's a definite resonance there. But these first three months have turned me into...lunatic is exactly the right word. Complete lunatic. Coupled with not being able to hold a single name, request, idea or concept in my head and it is just sheer chaos.

Sometimes you just have to laugh at the ridiculousness of it all. I can't even imagine being on the receiving end right now!

I'm actually in my third trimester but am hormonal beyond control.
I woke up this morning feeling sick and hungry, so went downstairs for some emergency breakfast to find that one of the cats had killed a bird all over the kitchen floor and that the dog had had an accident.
My hormonal logic decided that it was DP's fault that all this had happened. It was also his fault that I had to clear it up. When he came downstairs I went mad at him and then cried until he left for work.

Aggghhhh.

oh god whippetwoman you sound exactly like me

OP I was a bit like that too in the first trimester, absolutely fine in the second, and completely mad as of the last week or so. Interesting that it's also my DH who is mostly to 'blame' for most of what pisses me off. I've just posted separately, I hadn't seen this, but yep I really don't know what to do with myself at the moment.

This morning I had to get up slightly earlier than DH because it takes me longer to get ready and I was so bloody annoyed at him for just staying in bed and then he woke up and looked at me the bastard when I just wanted to get dressed in peace. I really wanted a cup of tea but I wasn't about to go and make us both one AGAIN just because he couldn't be arsed to get up but that meant I couldn't have one either because I'm not petty enough to make one just for me so I cried in the bathroom because I was thirsty.

Just ridiculous.

I want to write poor DH but I'm not feeling charitable enough!!