I (belatedly, am nearly 18 weeks pg) had my 16 week appointment with the MW this morning. I'd hoped she might check the baby's HB, but she said in my PCT they don't do this when someone has had a MC previously (I had a MMC at 13w last year and began this pg as twins but lost one at 7w) in case they can't find it and it causes extra and unnecessary anxiety for Mum.
I appreciate this but my 12w scan was 6 weeks ago, and while I've been feeling flutterings and poppings internally, have symptoms and have a bump developing, I was hoping for extra reassurance (this is DC#1).
I'm wondering if it's worth getting a private scan, but as I'm in central London the cheapest I've found is £85. I'll be nearly 22w by the time my anomoly scan comes around - 10w since my scan. Should I just try and relax? Have other people not had HB looked for at 16w appt and not worried?
Thanks!