Hi all!
I am 29+3 this is my first :-)
my problem is not with labido or whatever its that once me and my partner start to get frisky i feel completely uninterested! one minute im gona explode if i dont get some but the next I have no interest!
Its so frustrating and upsetting. My mind now winds me up when we are 'together' and makes it really difficult for me to relax. And even when I do manage to get my mind undercontrol and focused its taken so long (or feels that way) that i feel guilty for not enjoying what he/we has/have been doing. I have got upset and spoken to my partner about it and he is so loving and understanding and patient but I need to get this sorted! Did/does anyone else have this problem and are there any suggestions on what I can do?
Some of the reasons im struggling with sex are: i feel guilty lying on my back for any length of time, i get a stitch in my side when doing some positions, i feel like a whale even though i have not put on weight aside from bump. these things then escalate my running mind :-(
FYI penetrstive sex is not as difficult as forwplay as we have found 2/3 positions we can alternate so that i dont get to tired or achy.
reeeeally appreciate any good advice :-)