I am 8 weeks pregnant and I am an infant teacher. On Wednesday last week one of my class came into school with a red rash on his face. I asked his mum about it and she was very dismissive, had not heard of slapped cheek and said that her son was not bothered by it. (I have read on the internet that slapped cheek might not be accompanied by other symptoms.) I asked her to please get it checked out. She handed me a note the next day saying that she could not get a doctor's appointment and as it was not bothering him she would do nothing further. At this point I decided to tell my head about being pregnant (I hadn't intended to tell anyone outside family at this stage at all!) and she told me to leave my student teacher with my class and I should do paperwork in the office. I spoke to the mother again and this time suggested taking him to a pharmacist. Again she spoke about how difficult this would be and that her son was not bothered. I politely pointed out that if it was an infectious disease then other parents would like to know so they could watch out for symptoms, but I think she thinks I think she is being cruel to her son for not getting it checked. I am aware that her son is not bothered by this at all, I just don't want to catch slapped cheek! She ended by saying she would try to get it checked this weekend.
I have been very worried about this. I know it might not even be slapped cheek, but then a mystery rash might not be that great for me to be around just now either! I am also worried that she won't check, so I won't know what it was and other children may be incubating it in the class over the next week and I still might get whatever it is. My student has left now, so I am supposed to be teaching tomorrow morning. I really feel like I shouldn't go into school at all until I know what it is, but I'm also not sure what to say to my head if the rash has gone and the mother never checked what it was. What would you do? Am I being a bit crazy about this?