Last week I found out I am pregnant with my 4th child. I was very shocked as it wasn't planned. I was worried that I wouldn't be able to cope - children are 6,4,1 at the moment, I run my own business and we are hoping to build a house in the next few years. However now I have got used to idea I have come to terms with it and like everything life throws at us I am sure we will be fine. My husband however I am not so sure of. He was happy to stop at two but I was desperate for a third. I haven't told him yet and I have no idea how to break the news. I want to do it when I feel perky but as it is I am completely knackered and everything is a battle right now