Sad and broody

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Hello
I don't even know what I want from this thread other than its the only place I can say out loud that I have the horrible heavy feeling that I want another child and I know it will not happen as dh definitely does not want another child, we can only afford a two bed and we have three children already, and I think I am starting to go through the change. I'm only 33 but for the last year my periods are getting lighter and lighter. I am getting moodier and very emotional all the time. Looking at what I wrote makes me sound ungrateful for what I am have got. I have a partner, home and three gorgeous kids. I have been trying to ignore this feeling and try to talk myself out of it. I would never mention it to anyone as they would think I was crazy. Our family was shocked we tried for a third. Is this just a chemical thing that happens to women, are we just made to crave babies every few years, will it go away. Will I always get emotional when I think of or see babies?

Unlikely you are going through the change at 33, unless you are one of the few women who has an early menopause. Go to GP if you are worried.

I am sure other posters will have a go at me for saying this but......you could just....er have a little accident, miss a pill or whatever......ok ok I know this could cause problems with your dh....up to you. I would do it. But maybe this is crap advice and someone more sensible will answer your post soon. Think about it though.

No advice exempt to say don't do that. You have my utmost sympathy though as I yearn for another but to say it outloud makes me feel like I sound so ungrateful, I have four happy healthy children and I am so grateful for them, maybe they are what makes me want more of the wonderfulness

Except damn phone