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Why are maternity clothes so depressing or am i looking in the wrong place?

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GinPalace · 04/03/2012 15:23

I cannot be the only pregnant person in the world to want to look like I have a little style!

I don't have the money to have a large maternity wardrobe but want a few pieces which won't make me feel like a fashion dead-zone!

I do not have a large budget so the likes of H&M, Next, Dorothy Perkins would be my limit price-wise. I have looked at the offerings and they are lots of dull colours - greys, blacks etc. No nice little style features like cute buttons or ruched shoulders, cool patterns or some such.

It is just dull dull dull t-shirts, 'boyfriend' shirts etc.

Surely the designers aren't all childless people who think you just want to fade into the background when you are a parent to be??

Can anyone help me (I admit I haven't trawled all the shops)? Pleeaase

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Joygirl78 · 04/03/2012 22:41

Seraphine do fab jeans (online or stores in london). Isabella oliver sales (I have got up to 60% off) and on ebay. Their clothes are such high quality that second hand is still fabulous and worth every penny. I would much rather buy IA on ebay than pay equivalent full prices for the rubbish that mothercare/mamma pappas/jojomaman sell.

GinPalace · 06/03/2012 11:14

Thanks for all the advice ladies! I am going to be busy then well-dressed in the next few weeks! Any other suggestions still welcome but I am thrilled to have some decent tips to go at. Grin

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Slartibartfast0 · 06/03/2012 18:03

I took a half day today to go shopping around Oxford street to hunt for those elusive maternity clothes. I'm down to one pair of work trousers that fit and office etiquette suggests that I will need to wear something else soon before my line manager has to have a private word about wearing fresh clothes to work...
I should point out that I'm rubbish shopping for trousers at the best of times.
Things got off to an auspicious start when I puked at the bus stop in frount of an audience. I thought morning sickness was supposed to disappear after the first trimester, but I digress...

First stop Topshop where I was horrified to find out they had moved the maternity range from that little side entrance on the left. It turns out that there was a big sign in lights saying maternity as soon as I went down the stairs so perhaps I was being a bit dramatic on first impression. The range has lots of skinny jean/legging things in pretty colours, lots of tops that may as well be in the normal sections and some black trousers. They also had some swim wear and pretty underwear as well as a maternity only changing room.

I got a pair of grey legging things (£20) a two 'maternity' vests in a nice red and blue (£6 each and £10 for two)

I then crossed the road into Argyll street into Mama and Papas. I then walked all the way through the shop to Regent's street. I hate that shop, I find it intimidating and the clothes looked boring.

I turned left and when to H&M. I shop was lovely with very Cos like designs, lots of good cheap clothes that aren't maternity but could be used anyway. I find H&M a bit hit and miss but this branch was a hit...until I went downstairs to the maternity section and it was closed! They had a small range in the Kids section at the back (on the left at the end). The one pair of trousers I liked didn't come in my size. Oh H&M you were so close. The prices were very competitive though.

I then got distracted and ended up in Cos. They didn't have a maternity range but a lot of the clothes they had were suitable for maternity. It would be worth a look if you worked somewhere where you had to look quite smart and also had the budget. I looked fondly at the clothes trying very hard to justify the cost and then then went back to the mission. It didn't fulfil the purpose of getting work trousers.

On to Debenhams with it's not-so-great selection of maternity bra sizes.I got two very boring bras at £18 and £20 and some mama mio stretch mark stuff (recommend by a pregnant friend) that was so expensive I am embarrassed to say how much. Walked past the Urban Decay counter and didn't buy naked 2 which was very good of me.

By the way Debenhams has a nice big clean Ladies on the third floor.

By this point I was getting a bit grumpy and tired and should have stopped for a bite to eat.

On to Gap, which was having a refit. I'm not sure if the maternity range was reduced but it was very small. Gap is a shop I always find a bit dull. I tried on their black trousers and found them horrid. Very synthetic and unflattering. They also had lots of T-shirt bras on display in the maternity section that I didn't think would have enough support with the little straps. Whilst in the changing room I put on my new debenhams bras. It was amazing, soo comfortable.

Last stop Dorthey Perkins next to Bond street station. I like DPs, they have nice colours and reasonably priced items. They even had maternity items on sale (yay).
I got my black trousers from there for £30. To be honest I would have also been happy with the Topshop pair but couldn't be bothered to walk back.

Went home, left half shopping on train and a kind man gave it back before it was too late.

I hope this has been useful

Joygirl78 · 07/03/2012 07:19

I bought the majority of stuff online. Seraphine has a store in Kensington church street. Isabella Oliver online and on eBay. When I was preggers first time, mamma pappa was bland and dull, DP and M&S had some sort of 80's theme going on which was vile! Top shop was good on Oxford street. H&m is very hit and miss with what's in store. Online boden and jojomamanbebe do stuff, but it's floral flouncey yummy mummy style. Not my taste and quite pricey.
I have recently looked at vertbaudet online which looks good as does asos but I don,t need more stiuff.

To the lady above -hate to say it but I also spent a fortune on mamma mio first time round and applied religiously to no avail! If you are predisposed to get them(genetics and all) you will whatever you use. Sorry!!!!! Learn to love your stretch marks, I like mine!!! And they do fade I promise. This time I'm using bio oil and palmers stretch butter cream to keep skin moist, but have more marks. My 2 year old like to rub it on my tummy!

HollyPockett · 07/03/2012 08:46

Am echoing ASOS here. I've also lived in my jeggings pushe down to under the bump. H&M do long vests that cover the bump (I'm 35 weeks now) and ive bought some cardis to go over the top of vest so I still feel like me. I give it some oomph with scarves and long pendant necklaces...

Have to agree tho, maternity wear on the high st is dire

Langoria · 07/03/2012 09:09

I went out bought jeans, trousers and tops from Mamas & Papas and have been really disappointed - the jeans and trousers were both under bump and I am constantly pulling them up, the trousers (black for work) faded after a couple of washes and lost their shape. The tops too went saggy quickly and at about £20 each I expected better quality :(
I then bought under bump jeans from JojoMamanBebe and although good quality, they fall down a lot (do maybe that style no good for me?) so I then bought their over bump flare in dark Indigo and they are fab!
Invested in another pair of jeans and black work trousers from Seraphine in January sale... The jeans are a soft denim and the over bump band is flesh coloured microfibre so really comfy and good for white tshirts/pale tops. The trousers also have microfibre bump band and I would highly recommend them. At 5'3" both were far too long on me do had to lop a couple of inches off them but they are otherwise brilliant!!
Finally on the jeans front I invested in some skinny/ straight leg jeans from Boden in the vintage denim and they are fantastic. I feel like a million dollars in them. Perfect fit, trendy and comfy. They were £55 but I had a 15% voucher to use.
Now at 27 weeks needed to add a few new tops to cover my expanding bump... I spent £30 in primary and got some long tshirts and a couple of cardigans - bargain!!

Like everyone else has said there loads of non maternity things you can wear if you buy a couple of sizes bigger, but I would really recommend investing in a good pair of over bump maternity jeans.

Happy shopping!!

DameFlatYouLent · 07/03/2012 11:39

has anyone shopped at vertbaudet? Any idea how the sizes come up - big/small?

atalantis · 07/03/2012 12:18

I love verbaudet for maternity stuff. Sizes are fairly small, but not stupidly so. I've got a couple of lovely smock-type dresses that I'm happy to wear after pregnancy as well as during. Both I bought in the sale for somewhere between £5 and £10. Mostly I've just bought normal (non-maternity) clothes that I can fit over my bump: smocks, swing jackets, empire line dresses, and tights a size too big. I do have one pair of maternity jeans (from H&M) that have lasted brilliantly through all three of my pregnancies. I'm now 35 weeks on DC3; hopefully my days of buying maternity kit are nearly over!

DameFlatYouLent · 07/03/2012 16:01

thanks atalantis. My maternity wardrobe with DS was a total disaster and I'm determined to try to get it right this time round. Pregnancy hormones and a toddler who's allergic to shopping don't help

Sticklepink · 25/06/2012 21:02

I too had the same problem I wanted to look good but with a limited budget. I bought some tops from www.blessingindisguiseclothing.co.uk they were cheap and stylish. Ive also bought baby outifits which are truly out of this world including an outfit which sayys 'been inside for 9 months' :)

LittleLolly · 26/06/2012 10:15

Topshop has nice maternity! That's where I've got a lot of mine from :)

Purplecatti · 26/06/2012 18:50

I'm not buying maternity stuff. I've spent a fiver on a bump band to hold my jeans up for when I'm too big to do them up. I've got some billowy maxi dresses that will probably do me and I'm cutting up the sides of some of my t shirts and inserting some triangles of fabric to make them bigger. I think I might do the same for my leggings but it might be less hassle just to stump up and buy them from H&M. I will have to wait and see.
All the maternity clothes I've seen I can't stand
I can't bear the thought of paying for something I'll only wear for a few months, I'm 24 weeks now and although I think I'm huge all my clothes still go on.
I've looked at patterns to make my own clothes but they are all vile even with my choice of fabric.
If I get mega huge I shall have to have a rethink

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