Its a boy.....................................

[malinki]

Had a anatomical scan last week (20 wks) and its a boy!!!!!!, DH is over the moon and DD wanted a brother so far so good, so why do I feel so taken over, I didn't want another DD so I should be pleased, both DD and soon to be DS are both fertility babies, so are wanted very much so (took 5 years of treatment with Lap and Dyes, Ovarian drilling, clomid, synarel and metformin for DD and 3 years of clomid & metformin to get my boy!!). I feel totally drained, morning sickness went 2 weeks ago everyone says I'm looking fab, so why do I feel so crap. Hope this doesn't mean the baby blues, I need cheering up, DH is away with his boss and loads of guys in Chamonix - Skiing (there bonding weekend), maybe I just miss him.....

Because you have never had one before.

You will love him SO MUCH when he is born!

oh malinki...boys are just fab! i have two boys and they are just the light of my life.life is never dull with them.
when dh comes home, can you organise a weekend away for you and some friends? maybe a nice city where you can all do lunch, and go shopping for blue bits and pieces?
it's natural to feel drained-you are pregnant and looking after a small child.you need to cherish yourself a little

Malinki - I have a dd and found out that i am now having a boy! At first i was actually a bit down about it but as someone said, i was wanting a girl because i'd already done the girl thing! Now i've had a chance to think about it, i am so excited - gonna have a boy and a girl!! Give yourself a break and dont force any feelings - they will just come when you are ready XX