DC2 is due 2nd week of May. Friend's wedding is 2 weeks later. She is a good friend although has a very rose-tinted view on pregnancy, birth etc and happily tells people one of her other pg friends will have a week-old baby by the time of her wedding (slightly 
about that anyway!)
Should I try to explain to her that I might not actually be able to come to her wedding for a variety of reasons, eg if I go past due date, have emcs, or other birth issues? Or should I only tell her this if any issues arise in the few weeks before her wedding?
The other problem I have is that her hen weekend is 2 weeks before my due date! So similar problem here too.
I don't want to disappoint her way in advance but somehow feel she should be aware of all eventualities.
WWYD - say something now or not? I'm seeing her tomorrow.