Anyone jus not getting excited?

[Sarahmarie2505]

jus had my 12 week scan . All fine baby moving like mad really cute ! This is number 3 . However got home an everything back to
Normal still no urge to tell anyone in fact i really don't want to mainly cause I've mostly sed I will always stop at 2. Plus I hate ll
The questions such embarrassing awkward questions but I'm
Gonna have to
Come out soon ESP for my work .

I could of wrote this word for word myself a few weeks ago (in fact i think i did), I dreaded telling anyone and put it off as long as i possibly could but someone on here told me to just get over it and announce it, it finally took me a few days to tell even my mum then came everyone else but you know what they where right. It did get easier once people knew.

I still hated the thought of being pregnant though and its only really the past couple of weeks i've kind of come to terms with it (now 19 weeks).
Do you remember feeling like this with your other 2 children? or is this the first 1 you've had this feeling about? its probably down to your hormones right now and as you say you feel people will ask all questions but in reality they'll probably be thrilled for you. try not to build it up in your head though, as im guilty of that too then a few weeks later wonder what i was worrying about, i know it will be the same for you too, take care

Oh thanks I thought it was me going mad! No never felt it with my other 2 maybe a little the first ? I really need to get my act together and get it out cause wen ppl realise the bump they may feel put out I didn't tell them and I don't want that . I just can't get te courage up tons
It and it's really getting me down ! My
Mum is over the moon and I can't get on her level I've only jus agreed to her telling my dad ! I shudnt feel like this I'm 27 we both work full-time support our kids well they are good kids so y am I freaking out ??????

I think not being excited is one of those things that nobody feels able to talk about. I totally felt like it was 'just me' but I think it is just 'not done' to admit it!