I became pregnant after my second cycle of IVF, with very hormone levals so fairly sure there were twins in me. At week 6 and week 8 we saw the little ones, and then I had scan at 11 weeks and 4days. To be told one twin had a very high nuchal fold, there was something very seriously wrong but the consultant was unsure to the cause at this stage. We were told that we would need the babies separating as they were identical and if the ill baby died before they were separated they both would. We were referred to London for laser ablation which could only be done at 17 weeks plus. We had 2 weekly scans to check them both, I was told that if the ill baby died there would be no bleeding or pain I would not know. I had a CVS done at 13 weeks, which told us the ill baby had turners syndrome, as the weeks went on the fluid was from the neck to the pelvis, there were four pleurel effusions.
The baby kept strong and we had the laser ablation, which was successful, complicated and long. We found out the following day that mother nature had made it's mind up and the ill baby had died.
Anybody out there worried do not be I believe my situation is an anomally, has happened before but rare. I feel that I have coped well due to the fact we believe that the baby I have is healthy and I've got to pray she stays with me.