Help...scared!!!!

[Yummym4mmy]

hi ladies

I am new to all this mums net trend so apologies If I'm asking a daft question....

I found out this morning I am 4-5 weeks pregnant.....total shock and I am now Petrified!!!

I am 27 and my partner and I have only been together for 6 months, we live together and as corny as it sounds from past relationships we KNOW we are perfect for each other (I don't currently have MS but I might do now!)

He was told he had a low sperm count and so to get pregnant like this is a huge shock!

So now to my query.....I am scared and have no idea where to start telling my parents....they are not expecting this and I am scared they are going to be angry at me! I am finding it hard to relax until I know they are on board.....my father is in china on business so can't tell him and I don't want to tell my mother on her own!!!

My partner thinks today is the best day of his life where as I don't as I'm worried.......

HELP.....any ideas where I start????

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Hi

I'm 25 and 30 weeks pg, much like you we had only been together a few months when we found out i was pg, he was told he would not be able to have children without help also so it was a huge shock. when i told my mum and gran i thought they would be disapointed but they were really happy for us, they basically said you 2 are happy stable and living together so why not, DP family were much the same his dad was over the moon. I had been terrified and couldn't believe how positive everyone was.

I think as long as you make it clear your happy about it they will be to something like 'i have good news your going to be grandparents' is good lets them know it's a good thing. I wouldn't wait to tell them any longer than you have to so you give them time to get used to it.

congrats and good luck

I became pregnant 4 months into a relationship I feel its meant to be if it happens so quick and I like you felt this relationship is the one so we got married! So happy no Im 35 weeks and know its the best thing that could have happenedxx

Firstly..congratulations... And I was only 18 and was with my partner 5 months when I got pregnant.. First of all major shock and very scared. But DS is now 2 and a half, I'm still with the dad and I'm 18 weeks preg with number 2. And gting married next year! So it can work out and can quite honestly say wudnt change a thing. I personally dnt think ur mum will be that bad, she may shock u, I dnt no ur mum so cnt say for definate. But ur 27 and happy? So she shud be happy for u. A mum will (usually) always stick by their children. Good luck and don't worry the scared feeling is natural! :D a big congrats being a mum is the best thing in this world! A major honour. X

Thanks for the support ladies! Helping tonnes already!

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