Hi!
I'm nearly 40wks preg with my 4th at 39yrs old and feel v forgotten about bu my MW and "the system!" It's all changed so much it would seem (AGAIN), since I had DD3 19mths ago and everyone I seem to be talking to now has had consultant lead care for some reason or another during their pregnancy, been offered a sweep around their due date etc etc..
I don't feel that necessarily I've needed a close watch this time but this baby does appear to be big, I've had unexplained bleeding on and off throughout and now getting serious pains laying on my side, making sleeping v difficult. (amongst many other latent labour "signs"/niggles!) Position I'm in at the mo is I've not had MW appt since 37wks, I'm 40wks in 2 days and can't get MW appt for nxt wk as she's full. Have left a couple of msgs for her that haven't been returned so feel as though if I didn't keep trying I'd just get left! (I also have a few questions/concerns I wanted to discuss with her!)
Before I call triage at the hospital, (don't really feel I've got much choice,) could anyone fill me in on the "rules" for "special case pregnancy" and when you get either consultant lead care, or at least more frequent MW appts and/or interest in this country!! I've heard frm a few that you get a more appropriate level of attention if it's your 1st pregnancy, have any concerns in obstetric history or are over 40? Is this right? Want to get facts straight before I have a moan!! Thanks all! :)