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buying my own baby clothes... what do you think?

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kiki22 · 10/10/2011 12:24

Just had a huge row with my mum over baby clothes! would like to know everyones thoughts on it. (fall out with mum alot very close all female family so bound to happen)

So my mum and gran have told me not to buy any baby clothes as it is a waste of money because i will get tons bought for me as pressies once baby is here. I agree between my family and DP huge family we will no doubt be given enough clothes for buba BUT i want to buy my baby some friggin clothes! I want to pick somethings i like for him i know everyone is going to go for the cute baby blue things that will no doubt will all look the same and very nice but my personal style is a bit diff from the traditional baby clothes. Everything i've said i like to any female in the family is met with no u don't want to go to darker colours no thats not very babyish MIL nearly fainted when i showed her mothercares BabyK range.

So as a result i've decided to buy some things of my own but mum says i'd be as well burning my money it's such a waste!!! Is it really so strange to want to buy somethings for my first child myself?

(mum gran sister MIL were all single mothers with very little or no help from there childrens fathers so they all had to make do and think i should do the same but i can afford to buy what i want within reason)

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GuillotinedMaryLacey · 10/10/2011 15:43

:o a small strike for independence every time he wears it!

kiki22 · 10/10/2011 15:46

mwahaha :o

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Hotpotpie · 10/10/2011 16:39

Lmao you could be repeating the conversations in my house but more OH than my mum, have told him in no uncertain terms that I will be buying eactly what I want for my baby and if it doesnt get to wear all its presents then tough - I figure a baby needs changing often enough to get through most outfits of my own and everyone elses offerings and as I am only planning on having one then I will dress it as I see fit

Love the idea of changing stuff for bigger sizes I would never have thought of that but I will be trying that one for sure

dont forget kiki your baby, your rules :) (that needed a tongue pulling defiant emoticon really) Im such a contrary git now as I come to re-read that

m1nn1em0u5e · 10/10/2011 17:00

Buy whatever you want!..I think its all part of the fun choosing clothes you like for your baby to wear!..Yes you will probably get loads bought, but they may not necessarily be to your personal taste, you can always take them back & exchange them for a bigger size or credit notes for when you are ready to shop for more baby clothes!..

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