TTC but need the advice of those who have fallen pregnant so hope it's ok to post in here!

[iloveberries]

I have 2 options and need help deciding! Option one: lots of SWI, Option two: charting, clearblue monitor and all of that!!

Keen to fall asap (isn't everyone!)

I charted for a few months before TTC. Cycles aren't too irregular and I am pretty sure i ovulate between day 17 and day 21 due to temp shift and timing of AF's arrival.

Month 1: Lots of SWI (at what I believe to be the right time). AF arrived on time.

Month 2: Do I take option 1 of lots of sex and put the thermometer and temp charts away. OR do I purchase a CBFM and continue with the charting?

In my heart I would prefer option 1 as I think less stressful, but of course like all of us i want to do whatever will help me conceive quickest!

Would really appreciate your thoughts, what has worked for you? what would you do?

Thanks so much

After 5 months of ttc using ovulation sticks etc month 6 we just went at it like rabbits from 2 days before ovulation for 5 days, 2 or 3 times a day. Completely wore us both out but I'm 20 weeks pregnant today so something obviously worked

squiglett - i am SO impressed!!!! did that work first month then??!