Just looking for some opinions my husband and I are thinking about having another baby (would be no.4) this is my second marriage and I have two children (girls 7 & 10) from my previous marriage there father has nothing to do with them so my hubby has taken over the fatherly role 100% We have a two yr old daughter together and have recently been discussing whether to have another the main reasons I am unsure are
There would be a pretty massive age gap between baby and eldest girls not sure if this is a good/bad thing
We live in a three bedroomed house and moving really isn't an option (only been here since April and really do not want to move)
My career - I have only done clerical nhs stuff and reception work but I loved it and was good at it kinda feel worried i'm forever going to be buried under a mountain of nappies
Is 4 a bit greedy???? We have three perfect children should we just be happy with our lot?
I'm a bit fat and could do with losing a stone or two!!!
However of course the reasons to go with it are all emotional and totally rule my head but I have always tried not to let my heart rule my head and think things through properly. We have a great marriage 99% of the time and are very happy together we are not well off at all!!!! But my husband has a good job works hard and we are a happy bunch.
Any experiences/opinions (dont hold back!) would be greatly received.
xxx