I am 9weeks+2 or so I thought... I started to bleed bright red (not a lot though) yesterday afternoon and passed a clot. The bleeding stopped quickly and I haven't had any bleeding since. I rang the midwive yesterday who immediately booked me in for an early scan. I had it this morning. The consultant did a vaginal scan and then concluded that my sac was only 6 weeks and he couldn't detect a heartbeat. He said it didn't look good but he booked another scan for in a week's time in case something develops by then. The fact that I am not bleeding anymore and haven't got any cramping or pains doesn't mean anything as I can still be miscarrying. I am in total limbo and feel like I am sitting around waiting for the miscarriage to happen... I miscarried last year too, although in that case, I just bled heavily right from the start, so within 24 hours the miscarriage was diagnosed and dealt with (D&C). I have one beautiful daughter with whom when I was pregnant I was bleeding and passing clots for like 2 weeks. I feel completely lost and numb and don't know what to do with myself. I know that I need to expect the worst now... Don't know if anyone has been through something similiar but I needed to write it all down. I am devastated cos at 39, I feel that's my chance of giving my wee girl a sibling gone.
Thanks for listening.