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when you are engaged is 4/5 mean baby is right in or on the brim?

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Nemo1977 · 23/11/2005 21:35

silly question from 2nd timer. Am 37wks on fri and have been told baby is engaged 4/5 following a scan yesterday to check not breech. So is that very much engaged or a little engaged? With my son I was always told i was engaged then i wasnt etc until labour when they said his head was right there [was induced]

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hoxtonchick · 23/11/2005 21:37

it's almost totally engaged i think. but second ones can pop back out if they feel like it....

starlover · 23/11/2005 21:38

i thought it was a little engaged... i thought it was how much the midwife could feel? so if she can feel 4/5 then it isn't very engaged?

Nemo1977 · 23/11/2005 21:38

thanks HC..i knew all this last time around and only 2yrs on I cant remeber..lol

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hoxtonchick · 23/11/2005 21:38

ha, starlover, one of us is right!

roosmum · 23/11/2005 21:38

i thought so too sl

Nemo1977 · 23/11/2005 21:39

mm i have no idea..lol

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Nemo1977 · 23/11/2005 21:39

would rather be a little as am being induced on 15th so want baby to stay put till then

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HappyMumof2 · 23/11/2005 21:43

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Stockinghanger · 23/11/2005 21:45

could be either according to this

hoxtonchick · 23/11/2005 21:46

look, i'm wrong!

Stockinghanger · 23/11/2005 21:49

It seems it depends how your midwife sees it. She could have felt 4/5 therefore baby is only 1/5 down. Or she could have felt 1/5 so baby is 4/5 down - all very confusing. Whe I'm qualified I will make sure I tell the patient what I mean

Nemo1977 · 23/11/2005 21:49

lol am soo confused...

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HappyMumof2 · 23/11/2005 21:51

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Stockinghanger · 23/11/2005 21:52

You need to ask your MW I think. Ask her what she meant Not much help I know

Nemo1977 · 23/11/2005 21:52

What if it was done from the scan? She didnt feel at all but did a scan as baby was thought to be breech and just said baby is 4.5ths engaged and has put same in my notes with as seen on scan.

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Stockinghanger · 23/11/2005 21:53

Happymum - you have a point! If baby is 4/5 down, you will be walking like a duck and quite uncomfortable

I think if the midwife said baby is 4/5 engaged I think she means baby is well and truely down and ready.

Nemo1977 · 23/11/2005 21:55

SH i know the baby has dropped significantly the last week as I can breath a bit better but with DS he never engaged properly until i was in labour. Alreayd have the funny walk thanks to spd..lol

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HappyMumof2 · 23/11/2005 21:56

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Stockinghanger · 23/11/2005 21:58

I think your baby is right down then. You would deffo feel better up top if baby is well down, so it won't be long

Nemo1977 · 23/11/2005 21:59

no no noooooooo...lol honestly I want baby to stay put until the 15th. Am getting new couches next week..lol DS was 15days over so is it really likely this one will be early?

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Stockinghanger · 23/11/2005 22:05

All babies and all pregnancies are different Nemo! Who knows! I was induced with my first at 12 days overdue, second started on his own at 2 days over, so you'd think third would have started naturally- but no! Was induced again at 12 day over So, al though you would expect to go over again, you can't assume you will.

Stockinghanger · 23/11/2005 22:07

But at the end of the day, if baby wants to come earlier than your induction date, nothing will stop him/her!! not even a cork!!

Nemo1977 · 23/11/2005 22:08

ooo cork good thinking..lol

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Stockinghanger · 23/11/2005 22:12

now have visions of a waddling, heavily PG lady walking round with a huge big comedy cork poking out from under her skirt!! lol

eidsvold · 24/11/2005 02:33

from memory the 4 means you still have 4/5ths to go - my GP here in Aus said I was 2/5ths - meaning I still had 2/5ths to go - mind you - dd2 then dived right back up and stayed there until I had her by c-section. May be different with your midwife.