I have none of the risk factors for GD, except that they picked up high blood sugar at my 28 week bloods. Got sent for the GTT and it came back positive, so now I'm under the care of the diabetes team. It's a bit more effort going to the hopsital more often, but actually the diabetes people are much nicer than my community midwife!
If you can be bothered to read, I think that the NICE guidelines (chapter 4) have some good information about risk factors, diagnosis and treatment:
www.nice.org.uk/CG063fullguideline
I, too, felt a bit like the birth I'd imagined was being slowly taken away after the diagnosis. But now I've had some time to think about it, I am calmer and don't mind so much. In fact, I think I'd been quite blase earlier, and being forced to think about induction and interventions has given me time to actually consider all the options instead of just thinking 'oh it won't happen to me'.
As for the waterbirth, I am surprised that BMI is given as a reason for not allowing it - might be worth pursuing with another midwife?
gwendoline that's an awful story, I'd hoped that sort of attitude didn't exist :(