Ok when i was in labour with my son it was a big rush to the hospital already 7cm dialted all going well on gas and air untill i had my sister in law on the hospital phone talking my husbands ear off begging to be let in to be there when the baby is borne. Legs apart in agoney with him stood beside me having a bloody conversation on the phone with her. She even had the cheek to beg the midwife! Who quite blatently said no. But she was out side the hospital with a flask of tea and sandwiches! Talk about being in your face!
Well all was not well my son was breeched and it was pandimoioum to rush me to the hospital at 9cm! I was scared and did not understand what was heppening. Gets out side being put into the ambulance and what audience i had! His siter, husband, daughter, father, mum andstep dad! all these faces looking at me and asking if i was alreight????
Any way at hospital ahd to have c-section, brought down to ward all numb from what happened and every one and i mean every one came in one by one all his family then mine. It was too much for me to cope i was trying to get myself together let alone have a good look at my baby.
Anyway gets home, third day after having my son (very emotional!) his sister decides to pop up arrives at 11am and does not leve till 6pm that evening and all day i kept going into the bathroom crying my eyes out just sick of feeling as if i was being taken over. I am pregnant with the second now, only three months and already i am dreading it!
I dont mind if people want to see the baby but only when i am ready and get myself together you know? Your dignaty sort of goes after birth and by god did it take me a while to get over the whole ordeal.
How do i deal with it this time? lol