Hello all, how are you all doing? MrsZB - how was scan? Sprite* how you feeling?
Yesterday I had my obs/diabetes check-up again.
It okay, the internal = well on a postive note did not hurt as much, however proved that I haven't thinned much more :(
I am going in tomorrow evening and getting the pessary, doc said for me to expect it to be in for 24 hours (and yes I have to stay in - I asked :(). Then the next step is 3 lots of the gel 6 hours apart (if needed). Then plan is to break my waters (as long as I have dilated by pessary or gel). Then last option is the drip if contractions don't start.
They have said that at any point - any of that may trigger active labour but I am thinking the worst then anything else is a positive....so worst case is doc reckons by Sunday. (best case I go in labour myself today! come on baby!!). I know that trying to start things off slowly and gently is better for me, I'm just dreading being in hospital for ages.
All going well I will only be in for a day or two afterwards to get my blood thining injections sorted out (as soon as I can do them I will be allowed home).
So I am going to check and re-pack my hospital bag as I think I will need some more stuff, (only 1 outfit and 2 PJ's in there) might not take more but leave extras out for DH to bring if needed. I need to pack snacks! After tomorrow it may be next week before I am online.I so hope there is more good news by then.
I have been looking at it as practically as I can, I know I wanted to stay at home until well into labour (like I did with DD) and I know I am likely to get fed up in hospital but at least we can plan for the week. DH can arrange to be off work in advance and I've arranged for my sister to sleep here a couple of nights so that DD is fine for school (sis can get to work form here no problem).
Today I am going to go book shopping with sis (to have something for in hospital) and I will potter round today and tomorrow just making sure everything is okay for DD and DH while I am away. (not that I am worried DH is brilliant - as I go away for work a few times a year he is used to handling everything, but I would prefer for DH to be with me as much as possible).
sleepvader CS is also my worry. I am not even thinking about that possibility yet.
The original plan was to induce last week, however as I showed no signs of cervical thinning, baby was fine (and importantly not so big (I've never had any estimated weights, they don't do them here, but baby is only just over 50th centile aparently)) doc thought it was fine to leave me another week before induction, the closer I am to labouring myself the better the process will be for me they said. In additon I had a spontaneous normal delivery with DD (albeit 12 years ago ad I was 40w+10). So the doctor knows there is more chance of a normal delivery once labour gets started.
So I would say play it by ear, they will keep a close eye on you and if there is no urgency to induce at 38w you can always ask them to wait another week. Explain your worry of CS and say you would prefer t wait until your are closer to labouring yourself. Hey you may be lucky and be like my sister who was 3cm at 38w. I'm hoping you all are!! It's so disheartening to go in 3 weeks in a row to hear your cervix is not thinning at all.
I just wrote an essay as usual...sorry guys