constant worrier / stress head!!

[mytime777]

Ok so I mentioned in a previous post that I am a worrier. I worry about small things, Ridiculous things, things that often don't matter & that may never actually happen which often drives my bf mad.

I want to start a family soon and am worried(ha see me, worrying about worrying) that I will be so over cautious,stressed & worried that the baby will be ok, that we can manage, that we get the nursery done in time, that I'm doing something right/ wrong, that myboss will find out before they need to, that my materity pay will be wrong bla bla bla I can already see from writing g this I'll be a NIGHTMARE!!
My poor other half!
How do u all cope with juggling everything and staying stress / worry free ??
X

It's probably not what you want to hear but TBH I never worried about hardly anything UNTIL I became pg & then a mum!

Seriously though it is manageable but it will be a lot easier & mote enjoyable for you if you can reduce your tendencies to worry a lot now before you get pg as pg can make us all a bit more stressy at times. Maybe someone will be able to point you in the right direction for useful books etc that might show you ways to reduce your worrying?

Hope that comes across the way I intended which is to support you & offer my own perspective, lots of luck with starting your family :)