Looking for breastfeeding support

[Boogiemumma]

I really want to breastfeed my dd when she's born however I really struggled with ds and basically it didn't happen. I did not feel that midwifes / hospital staff were at all suppportive. They seemed to massively advocate breast feeding /demonise the bottle pre birth and then not have the time to practically support post birth. What tips / support / books etc can anyone suggest so that I can make it work this time. Thanks

Something which always worked for me when things weren't going too well is make sure that the babies tummy is facing yours. I didn't have too many problems so can't advise on any books etc although where I live there is a group called Bosom Buddies, I am not sure whether they are nationwide or not, Also there is a group called La Leche which have been running for years, google them as they may be able to help. Sorry I don't have any more information and good luck xx

You can start going to a baby cafe/breastfeeding drop in group now. Most sure start centres have them, to meet people/get to know them, have support ready for if/when you need it.

Books - bestfeeding is great

or food of love

breast and bottle feeding topic is full of helpful people too

I've got a book called "Thats what they're for" by Janet Tamaro - she's a US author so they talk about lactation but its BRILLIANT! I got it last time (DS is 5) when i was having BF problems and used the 2nd half of the book - this time round (I'm 38 weeks) just read the first half which is about preparation and tips and again its FAB...I'd really recommend and you can pick them up on ebay or amazon at a right snip!

Happy reading xx

Totally agree about your childrens centre, they will have support groups and peer supportirs.

I found mn really supportive as well.

I second the 'food of love' book recommendation.
A really good website is Kellymom
www.kellymom.com/
In my experience (and research) I think it helps to get off to a good start if you can avoid pain relief in labour (gas and air is ok) have a physiological third stage and ask not to be interrupted for the first hour after birth (no weighing, measuring, washing, clothing, vit k etc) - obviously if all is well with you and baby.
Also a new study shows teas can help-
www.liebertonline.com/doi/abs/10.1089/acm.2010.0090?journalCode=acm
Like-
www.breastfeedingnaturally.co.uk/feeding-your-baby-expressed-milk/BreastfeedingTea.html

My biggest suggestion would be to find the number of your health visitor (or their team) give them a call now and ask where all the local breast feeding groups are - go along to ten and say hello -

I discovered a group when DD was 5 weeks old and I go every week - it is such a support to hear from normal people and the peer support is fantastic.

I'm now going my bfn training Bevause I feel so grateful - if it wasn't for the help from the volunteers at my bfn group I don't think I would still be feeding DD now at 23 weeks

Good luck