I will be 32 weeks tomorrow. I have a consultant appointment next week at 33+1, I have been seeing them fornightly and will then see them weekly, and want to discuss the plan/options for birth.
I have a blood clotting disorder (APS) so am on clexane and asprin and I also have GD which has had to be insulin controlled as there was zero chance with diet. I say 'controlled' and they are happy with my levels, but they are rarely what they should be as I struggle to increase my insulin quickly enough to keep them under proper control. I am having to increase in every 2-3 days at the moment.
At my last scan baby's growth seemed to have dropped off a bit, from 75th centile to 50th, so depending on growth at my next appointment, or from now to the birth, things might change anyway.
Anyway, things so far have been left pretty open ended re: the birth, but I was thinking of asking for an induction at around 38 weeks. One of the reasons being that I know the risk goes up after 38 weeks if you have GD. Another is that a planned delivery will mean I can come off the heparin and will therefore make the birth slightly less risky and also mean I can have an epidural if I do end up needing a c-section for any reason. On top of that, my DH is in another country at the moment, as is my Mum, who is planned to come and take care of my DC when I go into hospital. So, a planned delivery would mean my would definitely get back in time for the birth and my Mum could be here. I've had quick labours with my other DC, so it's likely my DH wouldn't get back in time if I went into spontaneous labour.
Lastly, I lost my twins last year after they were born very prematurely, which has made this pregnancy all the more difficult and I feel for emotional support I need my DH there at the birth and that for emotional reasons he also needs to be there.
I feel all my reasons are good ones, but a part of me still feels it's insane to ask to be induced due to the possibility it could lead to a c-section.
Am I mad? Are they likely to agree to my request? Has anyone had a requested induction agreed to?