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Names for grandparents

24 replies

vj32 · 06/05/2011 11:57

I am pregnant with first baby, first grandchild in both families. Because of divorce he will have 3 Grandads, all of whom he will see regularly. Grandmas is easy - one is Grandma, one is Nan. How do people differentiate between Grandads with their children? (Neither DH nor I had more than one Grandad growing up so it was never an issue!)

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wigglesrock · 06/05/2011 12:00

My 3 have a grandad and a grandpa, shortened to Pa. I never had any grandfathers growing up so I found it a bit weird. Although both grannys are called Nana. Although I have my suspicions that my mother chose Nana because it was easy to say and she could tell people it was one of the babies first words Grin

Xiaoxiong · 06/05/2011 12:01

What do they want to be called? We called our grandmother's second husband by his given name (his choice I believe). Our other two grandfathers were Opa [Firstname] and Grampa [sillynickname].

d0gFace · 06/05/2011 12:29

Ask them what they prefer? Some people can be abit funny about name.

d0gFace · 06/05/2011 12:30

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apple99 · 06/05/2011 12:37

We have Grandad (name) and Grandpa (name), both Granny's are Granny (name).

chandellina · 06/05/2011 15:47

my son has three grandfathers - his grandmother's husband is just known by his name while my father is Grandpa/ name optional and my stepfather is Grandpa name.

spatchcock · 06/05/2011 15:52

I'm with d0g - I referred to my mum as 'grandma' the other day and she looked absolutely aghast. She's going to make up her own mind at some point.

PrincessScrumpy · 06/05/2011 16:19

dd has Grandad with fish and Grandad with the cat (who is about to get chickens so that will probably change)

LoonyRationalist · 06/05/2011 16:51

Ask them what they want, we have Grandad, Grandma, Abuelo (Grandad in spanish for my spanish FIL) and my mum wanted to be just her name. I like having individual names for them all.

dizzy77 · 06/05/2011 18:19

I offered my parents the choice as it's their first grandchild: DH's parents are already Nanny and Grandad to my nieces, and whilst mine were both Nanny [Name] and Grandad [Name], my dad recently lost his dad who shared his forename, so didn't want to assume he'd immediately step into Grandad [Dad's name]'s shoes. That said, he's indicated to my sister that Grandad [Dad's name] "is tested and it works" so suspect we'll go with it.

Valiant1 · 06/05/2011 18:52

we have Grandad Farm (they own a farm) Grandad and my mums new husband is uncle P, but my sisters dc call him Grandad P*. Then we have Nan and Nanny Farm and my dads wife is E** as she is only 27! but my mum was very against been nan at first she wanted to be Grandma and i think its up to the kids they will call them what they want in the end x

emmah194 · 06/05/2011 19:31

My Dad will be Gramps, which is what me and my sister called his Dad - no idea where it from

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clarabella18 · 06/05/2011 20:37

Only my dad as a living grandad so it's just grandad. And similarly only my mum and she is nana. However I also have a nana and grandad who are both alive (although not together, one is mums mum the other is dads dad) and my DS calls them big grandad or Big G fr short, an little nana. Not sire why really but it does seem to fit them both well!

Rootatoot · 06/05/2011 20:53

Ours will have Gran (my mum) and Nana (DH's Mum) and Grandad (My Dad), Granpy (DH's Dad, Welsh...they say Granpy bit like Granpa I think!) and I suppose Dh's Stepmum will just be her name or Nana Name and Dh's stepdad, his name or Grandad Name.

I agree with asking them tho. My Mum would hate to be Nana and MIL would hate to be Gran! :)

WidowWadman · 06/05/2011 20:55

Husband's parents are granny and grampy, my parents are Oma and Opa. Bilingualism rocks.

MrsNoggin · 06/05/2011 20:55

DD has a Nana & Grandad and a Granny and Grandpa. And my dad, who is long gone, but still in photos etc. is referred to as Grandpoppy. Because I called him Pops and I have many fond memories of him pretending to hate it.

RhinestoneCowgirl · 06/05/2011 20:59

We have Poppa and Grandad, chosen by the men in question. But you're right, it can get quite complicated! My children have Granny and Poppa, Nana, Grandad and X (he got married again, we just call her by her name), and also a Great Nana...

mumcanIaskaquestion · 06/05/2011 21:54

We have/ had

Nanny round the cornor (my mum)
Nanny & Grandad (dh parents)
Grandad with the cats (my dad)
Grandad in a wheelchair (my Grandad).

growing3rdbump · 07/05/2011 02:40

My children have Grandma and Grandad (DH's parents) and Nanny and Grampy (my parents). I loved having a 'Grampy' myself and so was keen for my Dad to also be a Grampy!

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Malvapoeding · 07/05/2011 09:00

We have Ouma and Oupa and Grandma and Grumpy

Ilovekittyelise · 07/05/2011 09:02

interfering old bat 1 and interfering old bat 2?! sorry, they are getting on my nerves already.

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