Anyone else fed up with their DH/DP?

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Need to moan. I'm 34 weeks, baby is breech and I'm uncomfortable, scared about having a c-section etc. Can't stop crying. Feel like Dh isn't interested at all in me or how I feel.

He missed the royal wedding on Friday because he was out playing golf - I looked after DD(5) all day. Then he's gone out playing cricket today and will no doubt rock up drunk again at midnight. I thought bank holidays were meant to be family times.

I'm just a pathetic, lonely mess. Why am I sat here feeling so shit while he's out enjoying himself?

I am such a grumpy cow at the moment

Hug. And

Sorry you're feeling crap.

You are not a grumpy cow. His behaviour is awful. Take care of yourself.

U have every right to be upset, think I'd want to throttle him. Don't stay couped up inside though arrange to go out and visit friends or family and have a great time on ur own with DD that's if ur feeling up to it. Hugs

I too would be pissed off.. but I know that sometimes men just don't get it!

Perhaps a gentle suggestion that going out with his mates twice in a row is not fair on you and DD! Or if he's anything like mine he won't get the subtle hint your p*ed off, so then you can try the cry and scream about how unreasonable he is!! Guarantee he'll spend all day tomorrow loojing after you!

The last time me DS and DH did something together as a family was over a month ago. He goes out EVERY night until 10.30. I mean every night. He goes to his friends to eat, play cards and watch TV whilst I look after DS alone. He is in the house for 1 hour after he wakes up. We never do anything together. I am so very lonely and feel so unloved, but I have DS who is a joy in every sense, and makes everything totally worthwhile.

Tiggiewiggie if I was you and he came home steaming tonight tomorrow morning I'd get up early wake DD up and tell her that Daddy is gonna look after her all day, then I'd go out leaving them to it :D