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really need some advice

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tommynose · 28/04/2011 14:00

Just found out I am almost 5 weeks pg, not planned. Did a test on Tues. Have 2 dc's 4 and 2 and I am almost 41. Dh has always been adamant he doesn't want a third child however I don't know how I feel. It doesn't seem real at the moment.

I have had my hcg levels back today and they are over 500. Dr did them as I have been having alot of tenderness and pain over the last week when my period should have started. I had a very early miscarriage last year and had similar symptoms although the hcg levels back then were only 25.

I would have to have a planned c section as I have had 2 em c sections and I ruptured during labour last time. Thats why they did the 2nd c section. I was told I must not go into labour if I became pg again.

My head is all over the place, finding it difficult to talk to dh although I know its going to be the most important decision we will have to make.

Is there anyone who has gone or going through a similar situation.

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cowboylover · 28/04/2011 14:19

Sorry no advise for you as never been in the situation but didn't want to leave you unanswered.

Hope someone in MN land can offer some more support.

SavannahRose · 28/04/2011 14:27

Do what you feel is right. A bit of a diff situation but I fell preg at 18 bf at the time didn't want the baby but I decided screw him it's my body my baby. I wouldn't change her for the world now!!! Does he have reasons as to why he doesn't? I.e finances etc?

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