am i worrying about nothing? :\

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im hoping someone can put my mind at rest here; im spose to be 10 weeks pregnant and seeing the midwife for the first time this fridaay which im pretty excited about but im getting the feeling somethings not quite right; im quite a negative thinker anywayy and i worry an awful lot over things that i dont need to worry about; iv had no bleeding and still getting every sign of pregnancy but im getting stabbing pains all over my stomache; sometimes there bearable other times they get a little tense; i know i should think everythings okay until iv seen the midwife but i cant bear the wait :\ do all miscarriages come with some bleeding? cos im not getting none at all not even spotting lol;

I'd say you are worrying unnecessarily. If you are still getting all signs of pregnancy, relax. The pains are probably things being stretched to accommodate the growing baby.

May well be uterus stretching pains, cramps. This whole pregnancy thing is one big worry to be honest, well it seems to be for me, this is my third and it hasn't got any easier.
Word of warning though, from your post I get the impression you are expecting something from your first appointment, it is quite a boring one so don't be dissapointed if you feel deflated afterwards. It is normal for this appointment to be a let down.
But do ask your midwife about the pains if only for reassurance.

Hope all goes well on friday.

I was the same during the first trimester. I went to the docs twice thinking something was wrong. The first time it was my body stretching, second time was due to constipation much to my OH's amusement, he thought it was hilarious all I needed was the loo lol. I had made him take me to the emergency docs too lol.

I'm 20 weeks with my first and you still get weird pains, along with strange sensations when baby moves. Just remember your body is streching like it never has had to before, so a few pains are part of it all.

Always remember if you feel worried to get it checked out, no matter how daft you feel. Its better to be safe than sorry

Good luck for Friday

Have you got a pregnancy book?? I've got 'what to expect...' and literally I've spot a funny symptom.. worry about it and then read the next chapter that night.. hey presto it will mention it.

This has happened at least 3 times.. the first was (sorry) discharge, then light cramps as my uterus expands and I think the other time was when my mouth tasted horrid.

It's written as a question and answer book and there must be EVERY question in there you've ever thought of.. all your irrational ones and a few more!

I highly recommend (although of course you can just post on here!!)

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hey thanks for all your messages; yeah im probably worrying over nothing and yeah this one just like an early bird apointment and i got another one for mayy which is the booking appointment but im just glad to get it all moving anyways (: and nah i aint got a book where can you buy them?