Sorry, a bit long.
Just got back from a consultant appt which has left my head spinning a bit. Backstory is that at the 20 week scan, the placenta was anterior and low-lying (next to but not touching/covering cervix) so I was booked in for another scan at 32 weeks to check on its movement. Turns out it hasn't moved, so she had me book a consultant appt right away (2 hours later). This is the first time I've seen a consultant, to this point my pregnancy has been co-managed by midwives and my GP surgery. Everything else has been normal up til now, including all blood and urine tests. Better than normal, my pregnancy has been completely fine and actually quite boring!
So I turn up at the consultant appt expecting to discuss the placenta, options, future scans, etc. Instead all she wants to discuss is the so-called large size of the baby. AC measures just above 97th percentile, head is just below 97th percentile, but the ratio is is the same as it was at the 20 week scan. That scan also showed a slightly larger than normal baby but nothing as high as 97th percentile. To me it just looks like I'm growing a large-ish baby, which isn't that surprising as I'm quite a sturdy build and my husband is over 6 feet tall. I'm very fit and active, have been exercising regularly eat well, etc. so no risk factors for GD other than being over age 35. The fundal height is 30, so not big considering I'm 32 weeks.
The consultant who takes an immediate dislike to me as I'm fairly assertive and questioning convinces me to sign up for a GTT test. And has me book another scan at 34 weeks to measure growth. Nothing mentioned of the low-lying placenta. The receptionist hands me a sheet with details on how the test will go and when I get home I see it says "you should not be asked to have a GTT any later than 30 weeks gestation as GTTs performed after this time do not accurately reflect a diagnosis of diabetes."
So now I'm really adverse to doing this test as all I can see are worst-case scenarios: it's positive but inaccurate, but now I have to have all my care through a consultant, multiple appointments with various people, a diabetic midwife, no hope of a homebirth, increased pressure to be induced, etc. etc. And all this because of a low-lying placenta picked up at the 20 week scan -- if it had moved or had never been low-lying in the first place, there would have been no need for a consultant to look at the growth of the baby (which the scan technician did NOT flag in any way, I should note).
I would actually like to call them back and say "no thanks, I'm declining the GTT test" and just show up instead for the 34 week scan and see where that puts me. Or not even that! I actually have a glucose monitor at home (bought as part of my previous life as a serious amateur athlete) so I could technically do my own GTT and daily monitorings at home with it and if my blood sugar is on the high side, manage it myself with a more focussed diet.
I'm already quite bummed about the low-lying placenta and steeling myself for the possibility of an ELCS, but being thrown into what I see as extra added issues that may or may not exist is not where I want to be these last few weeks. I definitely do not want to deal with that consultant again and reading some of the horror stories of women diagnosed with GD only to be strong-armed into being induced and ending up with the typical EMCS and all the problems associated with that makes me very very wary. My main concern is the placenta moving, if it doesn't then GD is pretty irrelevant isn't it?
Any advice or experience to offer? (I've found and read the recent GD thread but sadly it seems to have petered out.)