I didn't know where to put this thread, so sorry if I seem like the angel of doom posting such a negative/ worried post on a pregnancy thread, but I can't bring myself to consider miscarriage just yet.
I've been told I have an anterior (yet low-lying) placenta, which is clear of my cervix, but only by a slight margin. They didn't seem overly concerned at my 21 week scan, but it did take the sonographer a bit of time to be certain that the OS was clear. She was a trainee and had to ask to her mentor for clarification purposes, which is fine, but the mentor didn't seem to be paying much attention - which doesn't help in terms of reassurance, does it? I was supposed to be under consultant care because of my history, but was told everything was normal so I could go back to midwife led care.
Prior to this pregnancy, I had a miscarriage with added complications that rendered me infertile for over a year. I had to take medication to get pregnant and was just beginning to relax after 3 good scans, when I started spotting again. Now I've had a bit of on/off spotting throughout this pregnancy, some of it fairly substanstial, some of it very light. It's been bright red, brown and pink, but it's always stopped and then I've had the scans to reassure me. The spotting I'm experiencing at the moment is not too dramatic, but it is red/pink and doesn't seem to coincide with physical activity. The last time I had any spotting was after sex, which I also had when pg with my DS, but it always stopped immediately after.
I suppose my question is, has anyone else has this happen to them and, if so, what did you do? I'm not in any pain and the bleeding is very light. I am still getting wriggles from the baby, although the anterior placenta dulls the sensations a bit, making me worry even more. It's a Sunday, so I doubt I could get a scan until tomorrow at the earliest, even if I went in. It's all very well that medical staff warn you that bleeding might happen, but at what point should you seek assistance? Some books suggest you go in immediately, whereas others suggest you don't panic until the bleeding is significant. I don't want to be neurotic about it, but neither do I want to cause any risk to my baby. I HATE the fact that a prior miscarriage has made me feel like I'm being a nuisance and melodramatic about all this.