Hello
Today I went for my 12 week Down Syndrome scan - I thought I was 12 weeks 6 days. During the scan they said i was more like 13 weeks 6 days. I am 36.
The sonographer measured the nuchal fold at 5.3mm, which is apparently an indicator of Downs. I was sent into a consulting room and they got a consultant to come and talk to me - her advice wasn't that positive and I am so upset! I am off for the CIV test in a few days (I think it is called a CIV but I am a bit all over the place - it is like the amniosentesis, but 2 weeks earlier). I will get the blood results back on Wednesday.
I asked if there was a chance all would be ok, and the consultant said it was not looking good - she even 'gently' talked of how I would like to handle the end of life programme.
Has anyone else had such a doom and gloom situation? I have been told there is a chance of Downs or other chromosome disorder such as Edwards syndrome etc, and if the baby doesn't have those, there could be a heart defect. I am so upset and scared - I dont' have any pals who have been through this, so feel really in the dark. Sorry to ramble on. xx