Hello ButtonQueen, nice to 'meet you.' I have also had cervical cancer and had a deep cone biopsy in late 2009 to remove my 1b1 tumour. I am now in remission and am currently 20 weeks pg after having a cycle of IVF. I was told that I would be at risk of cervical incompetence as I have hardly any 'external' cervix - I am told it is virtually flush with my vaginal wall. I was warned that I might need a transabdominal or vaginal cerclage when I fell pregnant and I was referred to a high risk obstetrician for close monitoring.
I started off being seen every 2 weeks and after my initial examinations my obstetrician felt that I did not need a stitch afterall. In her words, it would be more risky for me and the baby to have the stitch than not, at least in my case.
Apparently I have scar tissue on my cervix, caused by the op, which my obs says is very strong and effective at holding the cervix closed.
Now my pregnancy has progressed I am being seen weekly, and my obs checks my cervix is closed using an abdominal scan or an internal exam. I understand that if my cervix was going to 'give' that she would likely be able to tell this prior to it happening (cervix starting to funnel, membranes bulging etc) so I feel fairly ok for now.
It is nerve wracking to feel a bit like I'm leaving things to fate, and I spend much of my time worrying and counting down the time until my baby could survive if he was born. All I can do is go with the medical advice though and keep everything crossed (including my legs!)
Have you seen an obs yet and had an exam? Are there any plans for you to have a stitch. I have done a fair bit of reading up so might be able to answer some of your Q if you have any. At the very least I can certainly sympathise with what is a very stressful situation. Many congratulations too on your pregnancy, it is such a blessing after having cervical cancer, despite the worries.
Sorry for any crapness in this post - typing on stupid iPhone!