I have had two complicated pregnancies in the past year which have both ended in a loss. because of the complications, I was seen by the lead consultant in the fetal medicine unit in UCH. He has scanned me himself.
I went for a 12 week scan yesterday with him (not because there was any complication, more out of fear and I trust him.) and he scanned me himself and literally in about 5 mins he was done. He said, everything looks great baby measuring perfect. I declined downs testing, but he told me the nuchal looks good anyway. we all had a bit of a hug and a cry and then they handed me the most basic report i have ever seen! no graphs or anything, just some measurements. my EDD. How many weeks i am and a little paragraph about what they saw.
my husband feels that they rushed.
I don't feel that way, I feel like my consultant doesn't care about graphs, everything looks normal and that's good enough for him. with the other 2 pregnancies, he was able to tell me as quickly there was something wrong and what it was.
I just feel like he is extremely competent and very experienced and knows what he sees. normal is normal.
am i convincing myself?