I don't mean to freak anyone out and certainly not telling you what to do if you're debating getting a flu jab but I just thought I'd share what I just went through...
I was never offered the jab at my appointment (I'm 17 weeks) so I didnt ask and didnt get one.
Umm, I really wish I had now. I just got back from spending 4 days in hospital isolation with a really, really bad flu and it was the most miserable 4 days of my life (so far :)).
The doctors kept saying how serious it was for pregnant women and I was monitored pretty much round the clock by specialists who seemed unnervingly concerned. Not only was I feeling horrible like you would with the flu anyway, I couldnt breathe, they made me wear a mask, i was kept awake for 36 hours with tests. They made me have a chest xray.
Since my immune system was so low they kept me completely isolated in case i picked up anything else. My poor dp could only visit me for 2 hours a day and had to wear gloves and a mask.
I wouldnt even take a paracetamol before this since i got pregnant so having IV drips of antibiotics, anti-blood clotting meds, and all kinds of stuff was really really scary.
Thankfully, they've been monitoring the baby and everything seems OK but it was absolutely miserable and I so, so wish I was just offered the damn jab and didn't have to go through that.
They're not kidding when they say the flu is serious for pregnant women. I think it's more of a risk for the mother than the baby but I can tell you that it's no fun.
I know it could have been a whole lot worse, and the important thing is the baby is fine, but if all this could have been avoided with a vaccine... i'm going to remember that next time!