hsmom really sorry for the loss of your baby and hoping all will progress well for you in this pregnancy. I am high due my daughter passing away unexpectedly shortly after her birth and 2 MCs after that. So, I do know how you are feeling - pregnancy after loss can seem like a very long and anxious journey. Anyway, thank you for asking about me. I am 31 weeks and will have my 32 week scan next week.
Mumsnet is really an amazing source of info and so it might be worth posting your own thread.
27 week scan showed BPD (head width) to have fallen below 5th centile. But OFD (head length) was normal and head circ was around 10th centile. The consultant who is doing my scans (works with Nicolaides) wasn't worried. My own consultant obst wasn't worried either as he said baby's head is rugby ball shaped rather than round. He said that as baby's tummy measurement is normal, growth is fine.
Re your measurements - were all measurements 2 weeks behind? As my baby's BPD was small, the overall weight was recorded as small. This is because a mathematical formula is calculated which takes into account various measurements. So If one measurement is off, overall weight/size will be recorded as small. These measurements have a 25% margin of error.
Other thing to take into account re baby's size is your shape and size and your partner's. The conventional growth charts do not take into account maternal BMI and ethnicity but when customised charts are used, baby's size tends to be more accurate. I am very slim and didn't start to show until about 24 weeks. I was worried also about not gaining enough weight. I have made more of an effort to eat more this time.
Re low amniotic fluid - my levels and baby's growth had fallen in the final month in 1st preg. Don't know if I was slowly leaking fluid or if placenta was starting to fail. Not sure what causes it in earlier stages of pregnancy but rest and increased fluid intake are important. Fluid levels are replenished by baby's urine as so docs may well check baby's kidneys in depth.
It is really good that Nicolaides is doing your scan. You may have a long wait and so take something to keep your mind occupied (though I struggled due to nerves).
Perhaps try to write down a list of questions to ask Nicolaides tomorrow, e.g., cause of low fluid, implication of reverse flow.
I will keep you updated. Please feel free to email me.
Really hope all goes well tomorrow.
xx