I have just had a friend round for lunch who looked at me in horror as I tucked into a ham sandwich. She said that you can't eat ham! I am sure I ate ham when pg with DS (in the UK) but apparently here (NZ) it is a big no no ... risk of listeriosis and toxoplasmosis blah blah! I know about things like salami and pastrami (because they are cured not cooked) but I thought ham was cooked????
She then told me a story about a friend of hers who lost a baby at 5 months pregnant due to getting listeria from ham ................
Oh God ...... I have been eating ham sandwiches nearly every day since I found out I was pregnant ... I have cravings for ham and mustard (normally hate mustard) ... and as most other things make me feel sick then why can't I have a blinking ham sarnie?????
Next question ... is listeria one of those things that you (the mother) feel sick with or do you get it and not know that you have it and so has my ham eating been damaging my baby??
Aaaaaaggggghhhhh ... I so want this baby but I hate being pregnant and always worrying and feeling sick and not being able to eat stuff and ... and .... and .... Oh bum!
sorry