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fanny75 · 03/11/2010 11:49

sorry for this, especially as compared to many of the other threads this is totally totally self absorbed, but I really need to get it off my chest so I can continue. I am really struggling to find any positives to being preggers. At 33 weeks I have a rather large bump - larger than the other ladies in my ante-natal class who are all due before me. So I feel like a bit of a freak. My parents are coming out to visit me in a couple of weeks, by which time I'll be even bigger, and I'm worried I'm going to feel like a freak show - everyone's already saying things like 'oh, aren't you big'! Not what I want to hear!
Plus the bump is beginning to hamper my movements, like bending, sitting, getting up from sitting, getting comfy, walking and all the things I used to enjoiy doing, so I'm feeling a little trapped. And then, when I last spoke to my mum, she kept laughing at me as she was telling me how much washing of clothing was involved, and I was saying why can't you keep bibs on to protect the clothes, and her reply was something like me having a lot to learn and having a wake up call. Mmmmmm.... I was quite livid about that.

On the plus side, which I am really really trying to focus on, I don't live anywhere near my parents or inlaws so advice and input is limited. And I am sleeping sort of alright, certainly compared to many mumsnetters. But I am so fed up with being preggers. I am really looking forward to meeting this little person (if I ignore the birth part), but surely there's got to be some more immediate joys of being up the duff.

Sorry for the rant. I'm not normally so selfish, but I can feel myself wallowing a little, so any kicks up the bum would be very very welcome! Grin

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Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
lucybrad · 03/11/2010 14:16

kick up the bum. Not long to go now and you'll met your lovely baby. And you'll look back fondly on this time. I know its crap, but it will be over before you know it!

japhrimel · 03/11/2010 16:32

kick up the bum You're healthy, doing great and getting bigger means not long to go before you meet baby!

I assume your bump is measuring normal though?

I think your Mum may be right about the washing TBH. Baby milk sick gets everywhere and that's without leaky nappies and nappy changing accidents! Grin

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