7+2 - "pregnancy of unknown viability"

[TumTumGnu]

I think I just need someone to say something nice to me at the moment
I've had cramping a spotting which has steadily got worse and worse over the past few days. The cramping is now really painful and the bleeding is like a light period. I went for an emergency early scan this morning and they found the bean, it's in the right place and the right size but they couldn't find a heartbeat.
The nice scan lady said that she didn't want to write it off completely but with the bleeding and the cramping she thought there was a high chance I was going to miscarry.

In my heart I know she is correct as it just doesn't feel right anymore, even dp has said I don't seem as pregnant somehow. I have a follow up scan next friday to see if a heartbeat might have apeared but I am expecting the worst while hoping for the best.

Anyway, I know there is nothing to be done except wait but this is my first pregnancy and I could do with some kind words!

You poor thing, what a horrible situation. It must be awful waiting to know for definate. Huge hugs to you. Surround yourself with comfort if you can. Chocolate, dvds (nice escapist ones) hot water bottle, duvet, treaty lotions and potions. Let yourself go with however you feel, rant or cry if you need to. Come on here to talk anytime. Sending you strength.

oh I'm so sorry to hear that things aren't going well for you. I'm afraid I have no experience of this but just wanted to send you a 'virtual' hug and let you know that you're definitely not alone, it is quite common and sometimes it just isn't meant to be, it's natures way.

I really hope that things work out to the contrary- it does happen that things turn out fine in the end, so don't lose hope just yet, but if the worst happens, maybe it's not meant to be this time, but I'm sure you'll be successful in the future.

take care of yourself xx

I dont want to give you false hope, but at 6wks 2d my notes said not certain if viable, i had two early scans cos of cramping, no blood, but pain. Im now 28wks, so, dont give up hope.

Anything could be happening in there, worst case, you are miscarrying, best case, you`re just gonna be one of those women that bleeds throughout pregnancy and all will be well.

Positive thoughts, this next week is gonna be a long one, and as bundlebelly said, there is support on here if you want to talk, ask questions or just look for some calming words

Any news tumtum? Hope you are ok.