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Don't feel pregnant anymore :(

46 replies

digitalgirl · 22/10/2010 08:34

Had a scan on Monday at 6+1 where they saw hb. I haven't had many symptoms up till then - a bit pf cramping, hunger and boobs feeling ever so slightly heavier. But now those symptoms have disappeared.

Am supposed to go back at 8+1 for a repeat scan. But I think I already know what's happened. My last two pgs were completely symptomless and I miscarried the most recent at 7 weeks.

Have one ds already so I know how lucky I am. I wish I could be more positive about this pregnancy (I did start off very positive especially with the reassurance of those subtle symptoms), but have convinced myself it's all over. Sad

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ILikeToMoveItMoveIt · 26/10/2010 15:03

{{{DIGI}}}

I don't know what to say. It's just so bloody unfair.

Take care xxx

SofaKitten · 26/10/2010 15:55

Take care from me too. So sorry to hear that but keeping my fingers crossed for you

8rubberduckies · 26/10/2010 15:59

So, so Sorry digi, be kind to yourself and I hope you have lots of love and support to call on in RL. I don't know what else to say really Sad.

lucielooo · 26/10/2010 16:02

So sorry to hear that digi. x

MummyAbroad · 26/10/2010 19:03

so sorry digi, you know we are all here for you in you want to talk. Take care xxx

pinkyp · 26/10/2010 19:40

sorry digi thinking of you x

niamh29 · 26/10/2010 20:16

How did you get on today? Hope everything was ok??

clarabellarocks · 26/10/2010 20:33

Hi Digi - remember you from the buses too and remember how lovely and supportive you were. So sorry to hear your news. Is there still a bit of hope though? xx

banana87 · 26/10/2010 20:57

very sorry digi.

ZombiePandaEatsEis · 26/10/2010 21:06

oh DG i have only just seen thisSad

so sorry you are having such a rubbish timeSad

good news that they saw a HB and also Sad that it didnt reassure you (due to it being slow etc) i really hope you get to announce good news when they rescan you {{{{{hugs}}}}} un-mn-ey i know but needs must xx

PM me if you need a chat xx

digitalgirl · 26/10/2010 21:09

Thankyou. There is a sliver of hope in that they wouldn't do an erpc as there was still a heartbeat (albeit very faint and slow). I asked why they wouldn't do anything even though nurse just kept saying 'research tells us that it's too early to say either way' but she wouldn't actually say there was hope when I asked her specifically. Can't be a good sign.

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digitalgirl · 26/10/2010 21:20

X posted ei hope you're well. Sorry we keep bumping into each other under such rubbish circumstances.

Am actually feeling a little nauseous tonight. But that's probably the stress.

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Gi1da · 26/10/2010 21:34

Digi sorry just saw your posts, had left well wishes on the other thread for you. So sorry it wasn't a straight good answer today. I understand how very hard it is to have to keep waiting when you need to be reassured over what will happen. I think early dates and measurements can be a bit out. Will be cheering on that little heartbeat to keep getting stronger, and hope you have a better answer next week.

digitalgirl · 27/10/2010 16:00

Update from me - Am cramping painfully today and spotting brown. This is how it happened last time. I'm expecting to start bleeding red tomorrow. Sad

Feel like I've already done enough crying. Heart already broken.

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catherineps · 27/10/2010 16:09

I am sorry.

SofaKitten · 27/10/2010 17:54

That's so completely rubbish. I hope you're looking after yourself.

Take care and I'm so sorry.

rubbersoul · 27/10/2010 18:02

I am so, so sorry.

I hope you have lots of support, please take care of yourself xx

Gi1da · 27/10/2010 19:49

Oh shite Digi really sorry to hear it's not looking good. Huge hug x

HeadlessLadyBoo · 27/10/2010 19:59

digi I'm so sorry.
There isn't anything to say, it's just crapshite all round. You poor thing.

ZombiePandaEatsEis · 28/10/2010 01:12

Oh DG SadSad

Im so so sorry xx i have been there and there literally is nothing i can say to help except to rest, get DH to take care of A and cry your heart out xx warm bath, hot water bottle and as much TLC as you can get Sad

ILikeToMoveItMoveIt · 29/10/2010 18:46

So sorry Digi, thinking of you xxx

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