I had my first scan yesterday at 11+5 and the midwife picked up a problem with the amount of fluid behind the neck (Nuchal Fold?). She measured it at 4.2mm, and the normal range is up to 3mm. I've got another scan Thursday in the fetal medicine unit at St Michael's Bristol (I live in Cardiff but Cardiff couldn't arrange the extra scan till next week), and depending on the results of that will then have a Chorionic Villus Sampling test done to look at the chromosomes and see exactly what the problem is. Everyone I spoke to yesterday was helpful and kind but I feel somwhere between overloaded with information and totally lost. They've told me it could be a chromosomal problem, like Downs or Edwards Syndrome or Turner's Syndrome or a heart defect or even a virus. It could be something that means my baby would live for barely hours after birth. They said as well that it might be nothing, but it is more likely to be a problem than not.
I saw my little baby wriggling around like mad and waving at us and now I have an envelope of scan pictures that I can't bring myself to look at. Yes, it could be fine, but it could also be something awful that would mean I might not be able to carry on with my pregnancy. I'm a bit of a state, and I'm really hoping someone out there has gone through/going through the same thing and can offer me any advice at all. :(