if I kicked dh in the nads would he undertamd spd pain?

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Well would he? Am joking of course but wish he could feel it just for a moment. only thing that helps is rest and I'm working and hate having to ask for help cos shouldnt have to.

no, you would have to keep on doing it to really give him a good feeling of what it is like to be in pain constantly

no idea but it would be fun to watch him rolling around in pain and take your mind of your pain!!!

Why do you want him to feel it. Is he being unhelpful or unsympathetic?

Ha ha I knew someone would cheer me up! its hard to explain. he is a great dh and does pull his weight but gets easily distracted by stuff eg ps or pc and then gets bit defensive when I ask him to help. also I tend to be un phased by most things but this has really knocked me and am only 21 wks. Resting helps but I don't think I should have to ask for help he should just do it.

This thread cheers me up!

DH is lovely, but I have been getting the most excruciating leg cramps at night that actually pull my muscles and leave me limping for 4 days each time. Told him and he said "oh yeh I've had that in the gym". Just wish he could feel it...just for a few seconds!

Haha Lula-you are due on my birthday!
mthgw- and lula. Yes thats it. I hate to slate him cos he is great but its the reluctance to tear himself away if hes busy with some form of media that bugs me. I couldnt care less if he plays on the ps3 just not when im cooking a roast!!And yes its the fact that yes they probably do think oue pain is "just a niggle"I told him this am that he has to research spd on the net and not to talk to me untill then.I am limping about somethimes wincing with tears in my eyes and he just doesnt respond at all.
I ma going to run away with his brother or best mate when im no longer pregnant :o

Why don't you put a peg on them while he's asleep and see how that goes down???

hahaha i dreamt id given him a kicking.I wonder how his research is going...its a pity really cos i have had my mid pg libido boost and it will go to waste now

Tell him about waking up to a peg on his nads if he doesn't show more support.
That will focus his mind somewhat.