Hi sunshine
When I was pregnant with my son, also aged 28, he had the exact same measurement. I was totally freaked out too. At the time they didn't do the combined tests with blood so they recommended we go for the CVS - I didn't want to wait for the amnio which was not possible until 16 weeks. However at the time they told me that the nasal bone was clearly visible which was a good sign. Did they say anything about that? Our results were an all clear but it was a very stressful time and I really sympathise with how you must feel but do try to wait for the blood test results. I loose track of how many people I know who have had a similar result now.
We unfortunately did have a problem with our next pregnancy which was discovered to be Turners Syndrome :(. I don't want this to stress you out - The only reason I mention it is because pregnancies since have been SO stressful at the nuchal scan. Our DD was fine but the sonographer we spoke to with our current pregnancy a couple of weeks ago said these days they would say 3.5mm is not always as bad as you think (can't believe in 5 years things have moved on so much!) - she said it is at the high end of normal but she quite clearly said normal. (We had a long conversation with her about previous pregnancies and scans and she chatted as she scanned us.)
Turns out our DS was a big baby weighing 9lb 6 oz at 38 weeks and a HUGE head! Best guess of the paediatrician was that may have had something to do with it though I am sure there is no science behind it.
Store up all your questions and write them down then try to find someone to talk to on Monday when you have the blood results.
If you can afford it you could also get a second opinion privately if you feel the need - it is what we did in the end with our DS and that's when we were told they thought the result would be fine as the nasal bone was visible.
If you do have the CVS done that is also the time to ask more questions as you will have a much more experienced person doing the CVS than the first scan.
My only further comment would be that if the bloods provide a good result and they don't want to do the CVS then maybe anyway ask to speak to someone about the results - I can see that being just as stressful if you are anything like me you would probably then worry yourself until the 20 week anomoly scan!
Good luck, am crossing fingers for you as I know it's a long wait over the weekend but try to stay positive xx