Hi Leo79,
Sorry to hear your going through this. I had the CVS done after a 1:6 result. The result was such a shock, I went ahead with the CVS in a bit of a daze convinced there must be something very wrong and not really weighing up the miscarriage risks.
Thankfully, the result came back the next day fine, and the subsequent heart scans have shown no problems, now 23+2.
I consider myself pretty tough & northern and usually subscribe to the grit your teeth and get on with it school of coping but I found the CVS procedure pretty painful & upsetting. I tried very hard not to cry and managed it, but then the lovely doc told me he would have to do it again as the sample wasn't enough and my bottom lip went, as did my DH's, poor doctor.
I never felt judged, although I didn't tell friends & family till afterwards, but everyone at the hospital was wonderful and supportive.
I really hope I don't have to it with future pregnancies. DH, said never again next time we'll take what we are given, after the procedure, but now he's calmed down he thinks 1:100 would be a reasonable cut off for us personally, which I'm happy with. I don't regret doing it this time, I would have been a basket case of worry by now if we hadn't.
In your case, I'm not sure what the CVS will tell you about the Tricuspid Regurgitation, as I understand it, it will only tell you about the presence or not of Downs and other chromosome related conditions. As a result of our high result we had 2 very detailed heart scans, one at 16 weeks and one at 20 weeks, which were just like a normal scan so much less invasive and risky than CVS. If its the TR your concerned about then I would talk to your midwife about heart scans & CVS and try to get some advise on which is best for you.
CVS is a very personal choice and a horrible decision to have to make. Remember 0.8% is a very small risk, you wouldn't bet on a horse with those odds, chances are very soon you'll have a beautiful baby and all this will be forgotten.
Best of luck.
p.s. don't pay too much attention to my painful CVS, I looked at lots of thread on here beforehand and most people seem to have had a fairly painfree experience, I'm clearly not as tough as I thought.