Quick history, DS1 2.2yrs, DS2 10 mths. Very small age gap!
No problems with DS1 (except SPD) but when pg with DS2 I had pre-eclampsia from 34 weeks and was admitted to hospital with terrible headaches and nearly had a c-section then and there cos of foetal distress. All stabilised but I was monitored twice weekly until 38wks when baby stopped moving and I was admitted to hospital again - he was fine but my BP was through the roof, protein in urine, etc, etc so was induced.
All ok, but DS2 was v small and remains small even now (being monitored by paediatrician). But he is otherwise ok, and I'm fine too.
Dh and I had always planned on having four children but dh is now terrified of a recurrence of my problems with BP, etc. So my question is, will this happen again? Has anyone had PE in one pg and then gone on to have another baby with no problems?
Was the small age gap part of the problem (and the fact I hadn't lost all the baby weight from DS1).
I'm 38 and would be 39 when we planned to try again (if we do
).
Thank you.